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[Do we surrender less as compared to Jainism] Before I was belonging to Jain community. And sometime I am being chastised by my family members that what kind of bhakti are you doing because they have seen that Jain sadhus and sadhvis are very austere and they do sadhana very strictly, they fast the way we cannot imagine and whenever they fall sick they don't go to doctor, they don't take medicine. As soon If we fall sick we rush to the doctor. So sometime I am being chastised by my family members and relatives that what kind of surrender you are doing. So sometime I feel that our surrender is less than their surrender. So how do we understand this problem?

Category: Devotional Service | Speaker: MPP | Date: 2025-09-09 | Time Stamp: 48:21 | Shloka: SB 4.18.14
Answer
The key difference is that in their sadhana, Krishna is not present, whereas in our sadhana, Krishna is present at every step.

In our practice:

We eat only Krishna prasadam—this itself is an austerity, yet it is joyful because it is connected to Krishna

We chant the Hare Krishna maha-mantra, which is non-different from Krishna Himself

Every aspect of our sadhana is directly connected with the Lord

In contrast, in other paths, the practices may involve mantras or austerities, but they are not centered on a personal relationship with Krishna. The mantras may be conceptually derived, but Krishna is not directly present in them in the same way.

At a fundamental level, all spiritual paths aim to help one realize:
“I am not this body; I am spirit.”
This is the first and essential step in spiritual life.

In traditions like Jainism, Buddhism, and Mayavada, this is also the goal. To achieve this realization, they undertake strong austerities (tapasya) to detach from bodily identification. Since they do not rely on a personal relationship with Krishna, they depend heavily on such austerities to reach that stage.

However, in our path, Krishna is personally present—in His name, prasadam, and guidance. Because of this, realization can come much more naturally and quickly by His mercy.

Still, the initial lesson remains the same for all: to distinguish between matter and spirit, since both are present within this body.

Where the paths differ is in what comes after this realization:

In Jainism, Buddhism, and Mayavada, the journey largely ends with realizing the self as separate from the body. Their conception of the ultimate reality differs, but they generally do not emphasize a personal Supreme Being with whom one has an eternal relationship.

In Krishna consciousness, this realization is only the beginning. Beyond understanding “I am spirit,” we come to understand:

There is a Supreme Spirit—Krishna

The soul has an eternal relationship with Him

Life’s perfection lies in loving devotional service

We separate from bodily identification for a purpose—not just to negate matter, but to awaken our real spiritual identity by Krishna’s mercy.

This leads to a positive spiritual reality, often described as Vaikuntha, full of variety and relationships:

Real individuality

Real relationships (parent, friend, servant, etc.)

Real forms, activities, and exchanges

This material world is only a reflection of that reality.

In contrast, some philosophies deny this spiritual variety and consider all forms—including Krishna’s form, name, and pastimes (rupa, nama, lila)—to be temporary or illusory (maya). Therefore, they do not accept a positive, personal spiritual existence beyond impersonal realization.

Thus, while other paths emphasize detachment, our path combines detachment with positive engagement—a life centered on loving service to Krishna, supported by His presence and mercy.